[FRIAM] Pondering the slang Adulting
Marcus Daniels
marcus at snoutfarm.com
Wed Nov 14 17:58:35 EST 2018
By "no need", I'm imagining a personality species stored in individuals. Suppose that personality P is instantiated only in individuals A and B which both refer to it as Self. P will be preserved so long as either A or B exist. I'm assuming that it is desirable to maximize the number of active personalities, and that Adulting is just a way to preserve a rare species of personality. In this case B could assign personality Q to Self and there is no immediate risk to personality species P. Adulting would be pushing Q on a Self stack to later pop it. Assignment is just as good for a Hive mind.
On 11/14/18, 3:34 PM, "Marcus Daniels" <marcus at snoutfarm.com> wrote:
Glen writes:
< The real trick is whether adulting is driven by the real world or severely abstracted stereotypes of what young people *think* is adult behavior. >
< But it doesn't change the conclusion that playing the role of an adult is distinct from being an adult. And I maintain that playing the role is more powerful and less delusional than *being* the role. >
One can adopt prototypes which will provide some cognitive insulation from being the role. Alternatively, one can define or mutate a definition of what being a responsible person means in a subjective sense. If this Self is not {de/re}constructed, I think it is probably copied from other prototypes. It is especially likely in adolescence when the pressure to fit-in is overwhelming. Whether the Self arises from lots of mixing and matching or from some sort of design is a detail. I'm just throwing out the possibility Self doesn't even exist for some people, or maybe even at all, so there is no need to keep an alternative prototype at arm's length.
Marcus
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