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<p>I am lead by Glen's response to think of Orson Scott Card's <a
href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Speaker_for_the_Dead">"Speaker
for the Dead"</a></p>
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<p
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<p
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<p>On 4/24/24 8:26 PM, glen wrote:</p>
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<div dir="auto">I could only wish I'd be criticized this well when
I die:<br>
"Dennett’s text is full of tirades wrought from petty
grievances, is disorganized to the point of being unreadable,
and like the rest of his books, will undoubtedly not have much
influence."<br>
<<a
href="https://jacobin.com/2024/04/daniel-dennett-social-darwinism-philosophy"
moz-do-not-send="true" class="moz-txt-link-freetext">https://jacobin.com/2024/04/daniel-dennett-social-darwinism-philosophy</a>><br>
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There's this fantastic podcast by Amanda Knox called Labyrinths
(<a
href="https://antennapod.org/deeplink/subscribe/?url=https%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.megaphone.fm%2FDONSN6255278021&title=Labyrinths+with+Amanda+Knox"
moz-do-not-send="true">https://antennapod.org/deeplink/subscribe/?url=https%3A%2F%2Ffeeds.megaphone.fm%2FDONSN6255278021&title=Labyrinths+with+Amanda+Knox</a>)
where one episode is about death and things like 'how you want
to die'. My best hope is that all the ppl who think I was a
hack, or an idiot, or whatever would gather to trash me. The
milquetoast accolades we present when a person dies are
literally disgusting.</div>
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