<html><head><meta http-equiv="content-type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"></head><body dir="auto">Given our pain and regret here, I suggest that we all honor Carl with the Tollander Pledge. I will go first.<div><br></div><div>Dear colleagues</div><div><br></div><div>Inconsideration of our long association, and the many kindness you have bestowed on me over the years, IF I become aware that I’m likely to die in some near future, I pledge to let you know. I will NOT hope for any specific response to that notification. I particularly will NOT hope for “expressions of thoughts, prayers, and feelings, etc.”. I will take it as GRANTED that, if I have any specific needs, I can call on you for help. But I WILL hope that we can take the opportunity to complete any unfinished business we might have. If I don’t hear from you, I will assume that I have won all the arguments and that everything is fine!</div><div><br></div><div> (};-)]</div><div><br></div><div>Thanks, as always, for your friendship and wise counsel</div><div><br></div><div>Nick </div><div><br></div><div><br><div><div><div><div><div><br></div><div><br id="lineBreakAtBeginningOfSignature"><div dir="ltr">Sent from my Dumb <span style="font-size: 17pt;">Phone</span></div><div dir="ltr"><br>On Sep 9, 2024, at 11:35 AM, Merle Lefkoff <merlelefkoff@gmail.com> wrote:<br><br></div><div dir="ltr"><div dir="ltr"><div class="gmail_default" style="font-family:verdana,sans-serif">I am heartsick. Carl and I did a lot of work together when I was at CNLS. He was always interested--and helpful--in thinking about how to apply complex systems to peacebuilding,</div></div><br><div class="gmail_quote"><div dir="ltr" class="gmail_attr">On Sun, Sep 8, 2024 at 1:21 PM Tom Johnson <<a href="mailto:jtjohnson555@gmail.com">jtjohnson555@gmail.com</a>> wrote:<br></div><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin:0px 0px 0px 0.8ex;border-left-width:1px;border-left-style:solid;border-left-color:rgb(204,204,204);padding-left:1ex"><div dir="auto"><div>Some of you will remember Carl Tollander, who was a regular attendees on Friday mornings until a few years ago.</div><div dir="auto">Tom</div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div><br></div><div>=======================<br>Tom Johnson<br>Inst. for Analytic Journalism<br>Santa Fe, New Mexico<br>505-577-6482<br>=======================</div></div>
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