[FRIAM] Fwd: More of your discovered joys

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*Programming note: I'll be off next week and the following Monday, the
20th; Fast Forward will be back on Wednesday the 22nd. Good afternoon! It's
Friday, April 10, the 101st day of the year. It's Good Friday, the most
solemn day on the Christian calendar, commemorating the crucifixion of
Jesus Christ. But the tragedy is redeemed by his resurrection on Easter
Sunday, a message of hope for these dark times. Sunrise in Boston was at
6:10 a.m. and sunset will be at 7:20 p.m., for 13 hours and 10 minutes of
sunlight. The waning moon is 89 percent full. Speaking of Easter, The Old
Farmer's Almanac explains the origin of some of the holiday's iconic
symbols: Eggs, for example, are a sign of fertility and new life, although
you can leave out the fertility part when you explain this to your kids.
Why decorate them? Well, they used to be prohibited to eat during the 40
days of Lent, but nobody told the hens, who kept right on laying them.
Painting the eggs gave bored Christians something to do. Bunnies are kind
of in the same fertility vein, given their prodigious reproductive
capabilities. But Lutherans in Germany treated the Easter hare like Santa
Claus, judging whether children had been good or bad since apparently the
little monsters revert to their naughty ways immediately after Christmas
and have to be reined in again. German immigrants brought that tradition to
the US, and kids started building nests for the Easter bunny to use --
hence Easter baskets, although I suspect that polyester nesting material
feels kind of scratchy. And of course, bunnies don't lay eggs, especially
chocolate ones, so things got rather mixed up pretty quickly. At least they
weren't led to the slaughter like lambs, a popular food on Easter given its
association with Passover (it was lamb's blood smeared on the doors) as
well as Jesus as the Lamb of God. Pigs end up as Easter hams because of
they are believed to bring good luck and prosperity (which is also why we
have piggybanks and not skunkbanks).*


*What's it like outside?* Rather appropriately, it's been a pretty rainy
March and April in metro Boston, and despite the morning sunshine, that
pattern will continue this afternoon, along with wind gusts. High 40s.

*Hey, sport:* *Cam Newton* as the *Patriots'* "bridge" quarterback? The
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*Today's US coronavirus numbers:*
Total cases: 466,396 (was 432,596 at this time yesterday)
Total deaths: 16,703 (was 15,774 yesterday)

*After I wrote about governors* who acted aggressively to test, restrict,
and buy supplies for health workers to contain the spread of the
coronavirus -- measures that have been quite successful so far -- two FF
readers from New Mexico, Susan Craig of Sante Fe and Larry Beck, wrote to
sing the praises of their governor, *Michelle Lujan Grisham.* Grisham
closed schools March 12, and on March 23 closed nonessential businesses and
issued a statewide stay-at-home order.

"Our governor is doing a great job with limited resources. She's smart,
unflappable, and science-based," Susan wrote. Larry agreed, but paused over
one thing: "I hesitate to have New Mexico highlighted on the national stage
because I want to keep our governor -- a thoughtful, experienced, Hispanic
woman -- in New Mexico."

I'm just flattered that you think of Fast Forward as "the national stage,"
Larry.
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It's my pleasure to make this a TFF (Trump-Free Friday for the newbies) on
my last day before vacation. So let's do some more of your e-mails about
the unexpected and simple pleasures you are rediscovering or creating for
yourselves during this crisis. (If you feel you still need the uplift when
I return, I'll post more then.)

Many thanks again to FF reader *Alison Picard* of Cape Cod for setting us
on this path. In fact, she wrote back with a suggestion:

Hi everyone,
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hosted by John Krasinski on YouTube. Very funny, uplifting stories about
life during the Great Pandemic. My favorite sequence from the episode I
saw: John contacts a little girl who is terribly disappointed because the
family trip to NYC to see "Hamilton" has been cancelled. Lin-Manuel Miranda
shows up and chats with her -- then the entire Hamilton cast sings to her
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remotely. Little girl looks like she's about to pass out from happiness.

*Alice Lanckton of Newton*
Since I taught school for 51 years, I was always aware that each generation
of students had an (often terrible) event that they all remembered as the
most dramatic event of their childhood: the moon landing, Kennedy's
assassination, the Challenger disaster, 9/11, Obama's election.

When one of these events was happening, I usually asked my students (middle
and high school students) to write a letter to their grandchild describing
how and when they found out about it and what they found out, their own
feelings, the reaction of their family.

I suggested they use their five senses to describe things:
"I smelled the hamburgers Mom was preparing when I heard on the news that
... "
"I saw charts of the numbers of people in each country that had the virus."
"I remember learning not to touch my face and how hard it was."
"I remember how relieved I felt when I learned that kids didn't usually get
a serious version of the disease."

Thus, a student has a role as a "prime source" and can also learn the term.
Finally, I hope it conveys a confident spirit that the kids are writing to
their grandchild.

*Holly S. Kennedy Romano of Pound Ridge, N.Y.*
I have rediscovered the joy in "making do," something my Italian
grandmother spoke of all the time. We are making simpler meals and using
things in the pantry instead of running to the store for just a few items.

I have discovered the joy in stillness, in not being constantly on the go,
and in watching the magnificent birds at the feeder in our back yard. To
watch them go about their usual springtime activities; courtship and
nest-building, oblivious to the state of the human world right now, is both
joyful and comforting.

I am appreciating e-books and the wonders of my local public library which
is, like everything else in town, shuttered. Unable to sign up for e-books,
I sent an SOS email the Sunday before last, assuming I would not hear back
until the library reopened weeks from now. A staff member got back to me
within hours and helped me complete the sign-up. I am on my third book!
What a joy to be able to have such an amazing selection of books within my
reach with just a few clicks on my iPad.

*D.R. Ketten*
With no commute, no need to dress properly, no need to shop, etc. ... I am
finally getting enough sleep!

*Bob (and Janet) Binney*
We both are in our 70s living in a downtown condo with a connecting balcony
to our lovely neighbors with 3 very young children (oldest in 1st grade).

My wife, a former teacher, came up with the idea of being Pen Pals with the
kids because they are not allowed to visit our home during this crisis.

So we now have this constant pitter-patter across the balcony with a knock
on the door delivering letters, drawings and …. not sure what to call them.
The messages are delightful, the kids are engaged and out from under their
parents' feet. We reply with our deliveries of new ideas and questions. If
we don't respond in a timely manner, we get knocks on the door with
messages like:



Thank God for kids.

*Karen Shepard*
Although I am fortunate to have a decent immune system, I am so sorry for
those who do not.

Yes, I am still busy and being paid. Even though my office is closed, I am
working from home and participating in webinars and tele-briefings (3
yesterday). I keep in touch with friends and family, read, walk, and play
with my gorgeous cat, Tiger.

*Ron Kendricks of Dallas*
I am a disabled elderly resident of a senior living apartment complex. I
have no transportation, no family, and am on a fixed income. We are in
"shelter in place." I can find no masks.

So I asked my friend in L.A., Kittie Beletic (a member of the Screen Guild
Association), if she could send Easter baskets for our truly needy
residents who have no transportation, no family, and no friends, to include
handmade unique masks, a thermometer, a roll of toilet tissue, stamps, and
a roll of quarters worth to do their laundry.

I thought this was the least I could do. I named this creative project:
Project Easter: With Hands and Hearts. Kittie has enlisted others to help
with the project.

Help will be on the way in time for Easter baskets for those most
vulnerable.

*Kathi Dunphy of New Brunswick, Canada*
I am lucky to be in a spot where I am surrounded by nature and space where
I can isolate outdoors, but here is a mood lifter I use when the weather is
bad and I can't get out: I ask Alexa to play forest bird sounds. I can be
working away at mundane tasks pretending my windows are open to glorious
peaceful sounds of nature! Especially now that it's spring and the birds
are returning.

*Dave Jacob*
There are a group of close friends who have gotten together for many years
on Saturday morning at various restaurants around Sudbury, Mass. We have
continued the breakfast meetings on Zoom at the appropriate time on
Saturdays until we can get together again. Everyone brings a dish to share.

*Jeanne Davis*
Sending "Joy" cards to everybody on my xmas card list, sending
coloring/sticker books to some of my friends' kids, calling 2 people each
day who I think might need to hear from "somebody else."

*Bill VanKeuren*
Happiness is a ukulele. Playing alone is great, but what's even greater is
that a humongous group of online ukulele jams have exploded on the internet
using Zoom (of course).

In the past 10 days, I've jammed with groups in Memphis TN, Santa Cruz CA,
Portland OR, Philadelphia PA, London ON, and Coventry UK, all without
breaking self-quarantine here in south Florida and that's just the tip of
the iceberg.

Boston has an active ukulele group on Facebook
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that I will explore. You can, too.

The only downside because of the latency is that only one person can play
and lead a song while the rest of us remain muted, but we can see each
other's happy faces and we can chat in real time between songs. What's not
to love until we can once again meet face-to-face!!

*Ginny Penik*
I have been FaceTiming my 5-year-old granddaughter almost every day just to
read her a story. She loves it, and it gives her mother a much-needed
break. Which reminds me: I still need to call my sister and thank her for
giving me all the books her daughters outgrew, a lot of which are books I
gave her when my daughter outgrew them.

*Ann Marie Harootunian of Walpole*
I have 7 grandchildren from 20 to 6 years old and have saved all of their
papers from school since they were in preschool up to graduation from high
school. I got all of the pictures they drew and papers they did throughout
the years and put them in plastic sheet protectors and 3" binders! It took
me 7 days, but now they're all together and each grandchild can look at all
of their own creations. It was such fun to see them all again.

*Annie of West Concord, Mass.*
With all this time at home, I started finally cleaning out my office and
files of paperwork after putting it off for maybe a year ... Found a folder
of letters my parents saved that I had sent them from college (my father
saved everything!!). It was so much fun to relive those times. It was also
really interesting to look back on what I was thinking -- or not thinking
-- at that time. A nice afternoon.

*Paula Carroll*
I am so grateful to be able to enjoy sunshine, foliage, flat walking,
grocery delivery, and all the technology that keeps us in touch. I
feel/pray for those who are working, keeping things going, not to mention
the courageous hospital workers.

One of the good things has been using Zoom with friends -- cocktails, of
course, on a weekly basis -- and realizing that some of the groups who are
in different states shouldn't need a pandemic to stay in touch! I plan to
use it more in the future.

*Ann Caldwell*
My coping strategies are all about shopping in place -- for books on my
book shelf I meant to read but haven't, cans in my cupboard for recipes
I've made up, and clothes in my closet I haven't worn in so long they seem
new! And on weekends, I take my 84-year-old husband on "pleasure drives"
(we don't get out of the car) to places, mostly on the coast, we enjoyed in
our younger days.

*Joanne Tannone*
A yoga instructor from the Old Colony Y has created a virtual yoga class in
which I participate since our Y was forced to close its doors several weeks
ago.

This class brings dozens of us together from our respective homes ...
giving us the gift of her time to honor our bodies two to three times per
week from the privacy of our own homes ... it is a unique feeling that so
many of us share for an hour ... we're alone ... but we're together ...
🧘‍♀️Namaste.
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can't celebrate Passover and Easter in person, but when we *can* get back
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