[FRIAM] Friday AM

Mon Jan 2 11:42:45 EST 2023

Hey! anime is a good thing. Or at least that's what I tell myself with
guilty pleasure anime like HighSchool DXD. :P
now back to you glen and your rant. So what you're saying is: what the
actual [redacted]?  It's down to lipservices to fix the issue of people
going postal or snapping in some other awful way. Sure it'd be good for
them to take a look how some non-trivial amount of people are just hardly
putting food on the table. And be all like: we can either fund that stupid
wall or do a universal base income of so much a week for everyone. I think
the point of the opening question being open is in this odd thing normals
call: health in context. or what I call small talk while the dr. does paper
work . Some nothing burger thing to fill dead time. And believe me I'm not
great about bsing about myself either so you have my comiserations.

On Mon, Jan 2, 2023 at 10:50 AM glen <gepropella at gmail.com> wrote:

> I've mostly been neutral about "the holidays". But as I age and my
> productivity tanks, I look upon all the little "reports" we get from
> friends and family with increasing sadness. It used to simply feel odd that
> "The So-and-so Family" year end report talked about how little Bobby has
> taken his amateur anime to new heights or whatever. But now it feels less
> odd, more normal ... and more digusting somehow. I guess it's a bit like
> the difference between the haughty _curriculum vitae_ and the more
> pedestrian, reflective, _résumé_.
>
> I went in for a "wellness check" with my GP group the other day. Don't ask
> me what they mean by "wellness check". I don't know. But because I don't
> really care which GP of the group sees me, this was a new one. She asked me
> that bane of the cocktail party question "Tell me about yourself." WTF?!? I
> *should* have said something like "I want to be an apocalyptic nomad and
> you breeder/settler types annoy the hell out of me." (She's pregnant with a
> 1st kid at home.) I might have, had we been at a cocktail party. Instead I
> just hemmed and hawed and asked her what she wanted to know, specifically.
> [sigh] It ended the typical way. You drink too much. You're too fat. Your
> cholesterol's too high. Yaddayaddayadda. Nothing to see here. Move along.
>
> I think the problem is I haven't been to a job interview in a while. Maybe
> that's what I should do this year ... try to line up a few job interviews
> so I'm forced to practice my narrative self elevator pitch.
>
> Happy New Year, y'all.
>
>
> On 12/30/22 16:36, Steve Smith wrote:
> >
> >
> >
> > On 12/30/22 1:32 PM, glen wrote:
> >> Interesting tangent. As always, I only post when I feel like I have
> something to disagree with (or fine-tune in a way that might seem
> contrarian). I feel like the closing on whim or choosing hours that may be
> inconvenient for a population is how we *should* do business. There's
> nothing more inhuman/inhumane than, say, shopping at Safeway at 2am because
> you *know* a multinational corporation is trying to squeeze that last blood
> from the market (and its employees).
> >>
> >> Convenience is one face of the Janus. Another is the optimized self ...
> e.g. tracking your footsteps to make sure you get them all in for the day
> ... or counting calories ... or Amazon-style, Taylorist "quantified self".
> *In*convenience is life. Attempts to avoid it are akin to suicide. And
> inconvenience is also pro-social. There's nothing more inconvenient than
> providing social support for a fellow human, sick puppy, or diseased
> ecosystem.
> >>
> >> So, when I see a "gone fishing" sign on a local business, I get a bit
> of a dopamine kick. Good for you, dude.
> >
> > It might also be worth noting that this "renormalization" leaves room
> for excellence...  surely there will be *some* small businesses and
> individuals who will excel by striving to expand or refine their "value
> proposition"...
> >
> > I can see silver linings throughout but I  think there will be "ringing"
> in many dimensions. As for me, I am happy with my new "lowered
> expectations" and even, as you suggest, can applaud a "gone fishing" sign...
> >
> > My own interests in optimization tend toward expanding circles of
> context... in my youth (at least into my 30s) the circle was rarely much
> larger than my self, my nuclear family, my neighborhood, my workplace.
> Nowadays it has become dizzyingly large and too often abstract... probably
> to the point of absurdity and ineffectuality.
> >
> >   It was safer and perhaps saner when I limited my optimization
> ideations to people and places I interacted with daily...   I also
> discovered "satisficing" vs "optimising"  in my 30s which was a significant
> relief, and allowed more degrees of freedom in my optimization/satisficing
> intentions/habits.
> >
> > "Good enough for who it's for" is a much better mantra, IMO than the
> usual "... for government work".
> >
> >>
> >> On 12/30/22 12:16, Steve Smith wrote:
> >>>
> >>>> OPT Cafe is closed as well. What a way to run a business this is peak
> Family dining out Time.
> >>>
> >>> A new phase of customer service seems to have emerged after COVID. I
> have ambiguous feelings about it.   Previously I was a little offended by
> various examples of businesses not catering well at all to their customer's
> needs/desires/convenience.   Los Alamos as a community is somewhat famous
> for this...  the "captive audience" and the myriad flexibilities of LANL
> employees lead to things like retail businesses only open from 9-5PM M-F
> such that anyone who can't get away from work at a whim simply not being
> able to do business there... or restaurants that are satisfied with a short
> M-F lunch hour and/or closing early (by urban standards) and leaving
> business on the table.
> >>>
> >>> With the hammering that service personnel took with COVID (in spite of
> the myriad relief programs) as well as small-business owners (which can
> include franchise operators) I have been pretty sympathetic with businesses
> unable to return to the (sometimes generous) hours and services they kept
> before COVID.    I would certainly *like* to see the rich range of
> available services out there return to "normal" but also appreciate that
> the most vulnerable folks aren't out there 'hurting themselves' to meet my
> whims.
> >>>
> >>> The implications of spiking minimum wages and prices and corporate
> usury, disaster profiteering are all over the place for me... I think there
> will be a lot more "ringing in the system" left to be experienced in the
> aftermath of COVID.
>
>
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