[FRIAM] Does Dusty Love Dave, and VV.

Sat Jul 13 23:51:15 EDT 2024

Nick asks:

Could you say a bit more about "going gangster", describe it in its detail and variation? 

Let’s ask ChatGPT:

The phrase "go gangster" typically refers to adopting a style, attitude, or behavior associated with gangsters or criminal elements. It can imply acting tough, aggressive, or engaging in activities that are rebellious or illegal. The term is often used figuratively to describe someone who is adopting a tough or assertive demeanor, sometimes for effect or to intimidate others. However, it's important to note that in real-life contexts, involvement in criminal activities or adopting such behaviors can have serious legal and personal consequences.

Llama 3 elaborates:

The colorful term "go gangster"! It's a popular slang expression that has evolved over the years, and it can be open to interpretation. Here are a few possible meanings: 

1. **Act tough or aggressively**: In this sense, "going gangster" means adopting a bold, daring, or intimidating attitude, often accompanied by a reckless disregard for rules or conventions. Someone who "goes gangster" might be seen as taking risks, acting impulsive, or putting pressure on others to get what they want. 
2. **Embark on a bold or dangerous endeavor**: "Going gangster" can also mean taking a daring or unconventional approach to achieve a goal or pursue an opportunity. This might involve bending or breaking rules, taking a calculated risk, or pushing boundaries. 
3. **Emulate gangster behavior**: In some contexts, "going gangster" means mimicking the behavior, mannerisms, or attitude of gangsters or individuals associated with the criminal underworld. This might include adopting a certain swagger, using street slang, or embracing a rebellious or anti-authoritarian lifestyle. 
4. **Be confident and assertive**: In a more general sense, "going gangster" can simply mean being unapologetically confident, assertive, and unafraid to express oneself. It's about being comfortable in one's own skin and not being afraid to take control or stand up for oneself. 

It's essential to note that "going gangster" can be viewed as either a positive or negative trait, depending on the context and individual perspectives. While it can symbolize confidence and determination, it can also be seen as reckless, aggressive, or potentially illegal. 

Remember that slang terms like "going gangster" can be subjective and context-dependent. If you're not familiar with the phrase or the culture it comes from, it's always a good idea to approach it with sensitivity and respect for differing perspectives. 

From: Friam <friam-bounces at redfish.com> on behalf of Nicholas Thompson <thompnickson2 at gmail.com>
Date: Saturday, July 13, 2024 at 6:40 PM
To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group <friam at redfish.com>
Subject: Re: [FRIAM] Does Dusty Love Dave, and VV. 

Hi, Marcus 

Could you say a bit more about "going gangster", describe it in its detail and variation? 

N 

On Sat, Jul 13, 2024 at 9:22 PM Marcus Daniels <marcus at snoutfarm.com <mailto:marcus at snoutfarm.com>> wrote: 

1. The dog sitter I used in Santa Fe had a video feed. I could see how Abby reacted to other people picking up their dogs using their video feed. She did not. When I picked-up Abby, she would throw her body at the plexiglass wall over and over. She did this every day. 
2. Now when I pick up Abby, other dogs are enthusiastic to see an arrival for a pick-up. However, this dog sitter has no plexiglass. Not until the last second do the dogs see who has arrived. When she sees their enthusiasm, she will sometime go gangster on those dogs. This is of course anti-social, but also strangely satisfying. 
3. Yes, the contented staring. 

From: Friam <friam-bounces at redfish.com <_blank>> on behalf of Barry MacKichan <barry.mackichan at mackichan.com <_blank>>
Date: Saturday, July 13, 2024 at 10:24 AM
To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group <friam at redfish.com <_blank>>
Subject: Re: [FRIAM] Does Dusty Love Dave, and VV. 

I feel permitted to barge in on this discussion, since my dog (well, our dog) is also named Dusty. 
Frequently, I look up from what I’m doing or reading, and he is in his chair looking at me, and we can spend several minutes with our eyes locked. I call it love; he doesn’t want to talk about it. I’ve read that this is common behavior, and that it results in an oxytocin kick to both participants. I think that chemical evidence is a good addition to the other data in this discussion. My starting assumption is that if a peptide is shared between species, the effects of that peptide probably share similar mechanisms. I.e., the simplest explanation is that if it affects me through emotions, the effect in my dog is probably through something very much like an emotion. I’ve never seen any evidence that this is not true. 
Concerning the list of consequences of a loving relationship at the end of your message, I would say all three are absolutely true. My wife had covid for the first time several months ago, and whenever she was in bed, both our dogs were there. When they see we are upset — a frequent occurrence in this election year — they will keep their eyes on us and stick with us until they are reassured that we are (sorta) OK. They sense emotions better than many humans I have known. 
When Dusty was a puppy, and I was out of town, my wife took him on a walk, off leash, in the arroyo and slipped and fell on the icy path. When she opened her eyes a few seconds later, Dusty had his nose right up against her face. 
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On 12 Jul 2024, at 12:59, Nicholas Thompson wrote: 

[Please, Friammers,, if you join this discussion, stay close to this or other closely related down-to-earth experiences. 

Dave, you offer as data: 

Dave is sleepy and calm. 

Dusty is anxious and afraid. 

Dusty crawls onto Dave's shoulder and finds reassurance and security. 

Dave is tolerant and does not shove Dusty off bed. 

Dave senses Dusty's need for reassurance and rests his arm across her back and lets her stay as she is. 

Dusty relaxes and goes to sleep. 

You then offer the following guide to interpretation: 

Love is not present in this transaction, unless you presume that a series of prior interactions created a kind of meta-state of Lovingness between the two 

I agree with you that love is a meta state in the sense that it is an arrangement of other behavioral states. So I will leave that alone. Having so stipulated, I think it is reasonable to say, on the basis of the data you set forth, that a meta-state of lovingness exists between you. (I would prefer to say you love one another, but partly in deference to SG, I will adopt your lingo.] To call your joint behavior loving is to perform an abduction. The test of an abduction is to examine the deductions that flow from it: 

So, if Dave and Dusty have a loving relationship, then, on my understanding, the following would be true: 

You would protect one another against harm. 

You would attend to one another if either was sick, injured, or depressed. 

You would become uneasy if you were separated for an unexpectedly long time. 

Are these things true? 

Nick 

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