[FRIAM] Does Dusty Love Dave, and VV.

Nicholas Thompson thompnickson2 at gmail.com
Sat Jul 13 21:40:05 EDT 2024


Hi, Marcus

Could you say a bit more about "going gangster", describe it in its detail
and variation?

N

On Sat, Jul 13, 2024 at 9:22 PM Marcus Daniels <marcus at snoutfarm.com> wrote:

>
>    1. The dog sitter I used in Santa Fe had a video feed.  I could see
>    how Abby reacted to other people picking up their dogs using their video
>    feed.  She did not.  When I picked-up Abby, she would throw her body at the
>    plexiglass wall over and over.  She did this every day.
>    2. Now when I pick up Abby, other dogs are enthusiastic to see an
>    arrival for a pick-up.  However, this dog sitter has no plexiglass.  Not
>    until the last second do the dogs see who has arrived.  When she sees their
>    enthusiasm, she will sometime go gangster on those dogs.  This is of course
>    anti-social, but also strangely satisfying.
>    3. Yes, the contented staring.
>
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> *From: *Friam <friam-bounces at redfish.com> on behalf of Barry MacKichan <
> barry.mackichan at mackichan.com>
> *Date: *Saturday, July 13, 2024 at 10:24 AM
> *To: *The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group <
> friam at redfish.com>
> *Subject: *Re: [FRIAM] Does Dusty Love Dave, and VV.
>
> I feel permitted to barge in on this discussion, since my dog (well, our
> dog) is also named Dusty.
>
> Frequently, I look up from what I’m doing or reading, and he is in his
> chair looking at me, and we can spend several minutes with our eyes locked.
> I call it love; he doesn’t want to talk about it. I’ve read that this is
> common behavior, and that it results in an oxytocin kick to both
> participants. I think that chemical evidence is a good addition to the
> other data in this discussion. My starting assumption is that if a peptide
> is shared between species, the effects of that peptide probably share
> similar mechanisms. I.e., the simplest explanation is that if it affects me
> through emotions, the effect in my dog is probably through something very
> much like an emotion. I’ve never seen any evidence that this is *not*
> true.
>
> Concerning the list of consequences of a loving relationship at the end of
> your message, I would say all three are absolutely true. My wife had covid
> for the first time several months ago, and whenever she was in bed, both
> our dogs were there. When they see we are upset — a frequent occurrence in
> this election year — they will keep their eyes on us and stick with us
> until they are reassured that we are (sorta) OK. They sense emotions better
> than many humans I have known.
>
> When Dusty was a puppy, and I was out of town, my wife took him on a walk,
> off leash, in the arroyo and slipped and fell on the icy path. When she
> opened her eyes a few seconds later, Dusty had his nose right up against
> her face.
>
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> On 12 Jul 2024, at 12:59, Nicholas Thompson wrote:
>
> [Please, Friammers,, if you join this discussion, stay close to this or
> other closely related down-to-earth experiences.
>
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> Dave, you offer as data:
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> *Dave is sleepy and calm.*
>
> *Dusty is anxious and afraid.*
>
> *Dusty crawls onto Dave's shoulder and finds reassurance and security.*
>
> *Dave is tolerant and does not shove Dusty off bed.*
>
> *Dave senses Dusty's need for reassurance and rests his arm across her
> back and lets her stay as she is.*
>
> *Dusty relaxes and goes to sleep.*
>
>
>
> You then offer the following guide to interpretation:
>
>
>
> *Love is not present in this transaction, unless you presume that a series
> of prior interactions created a kind of meta-state of Lovingness between
> the two*
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> I agree with you that love is a meta state in the sense that it is an
> arrangement of other behavioral states.  So I will leave that alone.
> Having so stipulated, I think it is reasonable to say, on the basis of the
> data you set forth, that  a meta-state of lovingness exists between you.
> (I would prefer to say you love one another, but partly in deference to SG,
> I will adopt your lingo.]  To call your joint behavior loving is to perform
> an abduction.  The test of an abduction is to examine the deductions that
> flow from it:
>
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>
> So, if Dave and Dusty have a loving relationship, then, on my
> understanding, the following would be true:
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>
> *You would protect one another against harm.*
>
> *You would attend to one another if either was sick, injured, or
> depressed.*
>
> *You would  become uneasy if you were separated for an unexpectedly long
> time.*
>
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>
> Are these things true?
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> Nick
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